Real Stories from the Courtroom: When Judges Get Loud
Hi, I’m Scott Peterson from D’Orazio Peterson. Every Thursday, we share real-life legal stories to give you a behind-the-scenes look at the legal system. These stories offer insights into what it’s really like to be involved in a legal case—whether you’re a client, a witness, or just curious about how things work.
Today, we’re diving into a question that might surprise people:
Is it okay for a judge to yell at a lawyer—or even at someone involved in the case?
A Personal Story from a New York Courtroom
When I was just starting out as a legal intern at a law firm here in New York, I had an eye-opening experience. One day, I was dressed professionally—like I am now—but without a tie. I was asked to bring some documents to an attorney who was in the middle of a trial.
I walked into the courtroom quietly and waited for a break before approaching the attorney to hand over the file. The judge was still on the bench. Suddenly, everything stopped.
The judge looked straight at me and said, “Now who is this walking into my courtroom?”
I introduced myself politely, only to hear him respond, “Well, you must be very important if you think it’s okay to walk into my courtroom without a tie on.”
I was shocked—embarrassed, really. I wasn’t trying to be disrespectful. But that moment stuck with me, and it wasn’t the last time I saw a judge speak sharply to someone in court.
Can Judges Yell in Court?
The truth is, judges in New York—and elsewhere—do have wide discretion when it comes to maintaining order in their courtroom. That includes speaking firmly or even raising their voice if they feel it’s necessary. While most judges are respectful and professional, some may have less patience than others.
It’s not unusual for attorneys—or even litigants (the people involved in a lawsuit)—to be on the receiving end of a judge’s frustration. Sometimes it’s about courtroom decorum, like what you’re wearing. Other times, it could be related to how a case is being presented.
Should You Be Worried if a Judge Gets Upset?
If you find yourself in a New York courtroom and a judge raises their voice or criticizes your attorney, don’t panic. It doesn’t necessarily mean anything is going wrong with your case. Like anyone else, judges are human. They have good days and bad days too.
But if the behavior seems over-the-top or inappropriate, your attorney may have options—such as requesting a sidebar conversation or, in extreme cases, filing a complaint through the appropriate judicial conduct channels.
Final Thoughts
That courtroom experience taught me a lot about professionalism, perception, and how to stay composed under pressure. It’s something I share with every young lawyer I mentor.
Being involved in a legal matter—especially in New York—can be intimidating. But knowing what to expect can make the process less stressful. If you ever have questions about legal issues, your rights in court, or what courtroom behavior is considered acceptable, don’t hesitate to reach out to us at D’Orazio Peterson.
We’re here to help.